HOW TO DOOR WITH RESPECT TO THE APPEARANCE

Well, if you was not born handsome, do not bother. The women give much less importance to it than most men think. What matters is your attitude. Switching on kids, is their appearance in clothes, in the case, as if smiling enough, when we speak in positive tone, if you do not complain or regret and is talking all the time from you.
Complain, complain, do not smile, whining, criticism and talk without stopping cars or football, these are things that women hate subliminally.
Dress appropriately and not richly ...
No earrings, beard or exotic clothes. Women feel more comfortable with men of non-threatening appearance and correct.
I do not particularly suit and tie off. Is not wrong and never comes out much cheaper than a brand of clothes. It makes your style? Well use a coat on a shirt color sober. No shoes, please. Buy a stylish and versatile moccasin for any occasion. Shoes says a lot about a man. It is the first place they look carefully, after his face and there ... Trust me.

A key point is your smile. Women love men peart. For that you can invest in their teeth. You see, this is important!

Teeth clean and fix any make beautiful smile. Teeth are the identity card of their hygiene. Watch them.

The hairs have relative importance. If you do not have hair as beautiful, keep them short and clean.

Barb is not speech. Few men are okay with it and even less to maintain and care.

Nails are crucial. Cleaned, trimmed and without any basis, please. Natural.

His hands have calluses? Great! Reflect that, or you work a lot, or in academia or strong mesh sport that requires of its hands. Women like the feel of hands calosa ...

No rings, and other "bijujas. Women do not know what to think about these men's jewelry, so do not risk it at home and let your pulseirinha of estimation that his mother gave him.

Keep in weight. You need not be an athlete, but not be a prominent belly of women who return for food ... and very difficult. The belly is about who you are on the table and in bed ... Think about it ... So, friend, weight loss.

WITH RESPECT TO ATTITUDES

As I said, smile. But do not make jokes in bad taste, or putarias. Do not tell advantage. Ask discretamente. Show an interest and will seem interesting. Do not talk to you in the first meetings. Ask questions when answering a question. But when you talk something about them is unavoidable, tell the truth or at least possible that the sincerity can now ...

It's more than proven that whoever comes out of the interested parties together and are not those who want to do interesting opinion.

Read. This is great advice. Culture is highly seductive. Do not read all the newspapers. No police and sports page. Books, books, books ... best seller or any book that interests you.

But read and make this a habit. Women admire readers.

Try not to talk about controversial subjects such as politics, homosexuality, or feminism. You never know if the beautiful woman who is accompanying you ferrenha PT, has a gay brother and Rose Marie Muraro wonder ...

Praise always, quietly, but with constancy. But attention, be honest. No cheap praise and obscene, as "wonderful and nice bootie." Women like to lower the bed and not in public ...

Say it is well that dress and she has good taste. Or your hair is beautiful. Or his mouth expressive. Or instigating your eyes.

Where you look to talk to them is crucial. There is a triangle between the eyes and chin and is there you should focus your eyes, but in the eyes most of the time.

Others look the mouth of a person indicates explicit flirtation, so careful. Worth the sense.

Not stop, ever, nor is it a real talking nonsense. Agree in principle and welcomes the head waggle. She does not know whether you agree with what she says or it is only with what she says. Count to three and respond so slowly and calmly. Pretend that always think before you speak and cause a tremendous impression. Never, never, never say that to a woman that she is wrong. You may totally disagree to what she says, without realizing it, starting with his reply: - I have a parallel thought about this ...

Speak the truth. If married, you say. It has girlfriend, proves. After all, if you're interested in someone else, their relationship has not go well and she will understand. But I never pass by liar. Debases and stain forever. Talk honestly felt attracted to and see the results ...

WITH RESPECT TO THE MONEY

Always a difficulty, of course. Beautiful women worth, unfortunately. Does not mean anything, but ...

Good company you can not completely hard. Fix your accounts, save, invest, spend in moderation. Women who know value spend and invest.

Cars are not always essential, but the lack of can cause inconvenience, because competition is strong. So if you have one chance. If not, redouble the advice above ...

Accepted if it split the bill proposes, today is a kind of compliment to their financial independence. If she does not speak anything, chivalrous and pay the bill without any fanfare.

Open the door of the car, send flowers (need not be expensive ...), take a rose to the meetings, variety programs, are some interesting tips. But the main and most attractive of them is certainly the respect to the parameters it requires. It is a natural suggestion for a stretched up your home or motel after a night legal, but must be with the acquiescence of her, because there will be good for it.

Do not force the bar. There is nothing more annoying and inelegant. A maximum of respect never worth much. If you find someone solved that part up to you, not scare! Women are more loose and be natural, but ... please do not paint-brush!

Do not be hiding their financial situation and agreed that it pays. It is great to feel valued by your presence enough that they pay the bill ...

Finally, I would say that these ideas are part of my personal experiences and serve as a compass, not only as a way of the art of conquest. If you take advantage of them well, I know I have the success I had ...

Remember when the highest level of achievement is to be first of all THE BEST OF YOU. Its true I only you can be.

HOW TO IMPROVE THEIR SELF-ESTEEM

If you are noticing that their self-esteem goes way to low, the back up. Reverse this framework through practical actions that we often forget in our subconscious.

Step by step:

1. Turn at the lamentations decisions. Leave a passive attitude aside and take responsibility for themselves to promote change.

2. Choose possible targets, even if you have to conquer it bit by bit. Unattainable goals are the easiest way to frustration and a new relapse in self-esteem.

3. Work your self-knowledge, is about questioning their values, and examine what is really important to you. This will help you make decisions and change attitudes.

4. Take your faults and accept it the way you are. This is not to be accommodated, however. Try to improve what is possible, but not exaggerating seeking perfection in everything. This search is endless, and you may be wasting time and effort that could be devoted to other activities more productive and pleasant.

5. Face the failure as something normal. Enjoy it as a valuable lesson to face the new challenges, not as proof of disability.

6. Express your views, wishes. Furthermore, respecting the opinions of others. Respect does not mean you should necessarily agree with them.

7. Diversify and expand their relations.

8. Small actions can mean a lot. A phone call, a party with friends, cleaning up the room, etc..

But remember:
Take one step at a time. Want to solve everything at once in most cases is not realistic. Do not fall into the temptation of alcohol to forget the problems and obstacles. It is best to face them so optimistic, not underestimate them or, conversely, feel that they are insurmountable.

SHYNESS AMAZES OF TIME

You had the feeling that their friends are always more beautiful and friendly to you? Have you got the lowering look at parties when someone threatens cross your path? Already rehearsing phrases of purpose and poses in front of the mirror to get their attention?

Well aware that these are the trademarks of shy people. In love, then this problem becomes a man-of-seven-heads. If you qualify, it's time to finish time with it.

First, stop already with the mania to find than the others. Everyone has flaws and virtues.

Second, demonstrate a certain inhibition in love is perfectly normal. Just do not let it paralyze their actions.

Thirdly, if you are even in order to capture someone, remember that, if not try, never know if your chances are great or zero.

Most people are not even permitted, to have those people, the most uninhibited moments that pass by just getting the 'just quit'. Everyone has a bit of shyness, not go thinking that this is something of another world and only you are well ...

The fact is that the shyness begins to be alarming, when you isolate a pure shyness of people, but that is another story ...

But if that cat is saying a simple "hi" and you lack, is red with sweaty hands and legs wobbly, not encuque, we give here tips of experts to overcome the shame and anxiety to win the cat.

In the view of psychologists, overcoming shyness is the first step in seeking a relationship. If you connect the tips:

Master your anxiety: When your target appears, try to relax. Start controlling your breathing, breathe deeply and expire well.

Face your fear: Remember this phrase: "Who could not, do not snack." Little closer to the 'it' and go gaining ground, so you will gain greater certainty for future investment.

Learn to make and receive praise: There is no grace to receive a compliment, recognizing its value! Praise the other is also important!

Stop waiting for the worst: Do not feed negative thoughts, especially in situations where you get nervous. Think you are unlucky or make sure that nothing will interfere only, start to be more optimistic.

Ceases to be perfectionist: Do not try to be the most perfect person in the world, because sooner or later end up sliding agent. Show your crush your qualities and defects. This avoids forcing you to what is not, making their meetings more sincere and authentic.

Learn to be rejected: It is not always like to oblige. Has personality, if 'she' does not agree with your opinion, do not go thinking it will change you leave. Remember that the fear of being rejected will only bring more uncertainties.

Find your own style: Stop imitating is the way of others, is what you really are. Women like men decided, safe and authentic.

Eye in eye: When talking to people, become accustomed to look into the eyes of them, a practice that usually brings in more security and respect from other people.

It is not perfect: You may create a somewhat exaggerated picture of his crush. Remember that we are human and have flaws. Learn and define the qualities and faults, you can analyze the defects it looks like yours.

Pay attention to the world: Of course you already entered a crowded room and had the impression that everyone stopped to talk to the attention of you, right? Shy people find it always the center of attention and that everyone is repairing their attitudes. Remember that all, most are concerned with himself. Just pay more attention to everything that surrounds you.

WHAT THE LOOK MAY REVEAL

Tired of taking cuts for women? You think they dream of love with you in bed when all they want is a hell of hot that you right click away? Relax! The feminine soul may become a permanently open book - if you can read your pages. The secret is to study the position of their eyes - and all the possibilities (and impossibilities) are within reach. Learn how to interpret them correctly. So yes, light is green, so that suggests dreamed program, you it ... and best friend.

Low and focused:
Great sign, showing connections with the meanings of the body. With a good conversation, it is yours.

Half right (or left):
She is counting the realm of censorship. Download the ball while it is time.

Center and blurred:
Is reminiscent of something you saw or read. The Kama Sutra? Or the scene of the ice breaker for Fatal Instinct?

High and on the right:
She is building a scene on the right side (the creative) brain. Is evaluating the scenario.

Senior left:
Field of memory. Compare the proposal with something you already have. Everything now depends on their competence.

BODY LANGUAGE

WHAT IS IT MEAN?

As for whether she blinked or if you had a speck in the eye? There are many signals transmitted by involuntary body want you can decipher. The psychobiology, discipline that studies the non-verbal language, translated several of these signs. Meet the tracks left by the siren that can help you to gaff it:

YOU HAVE HIGH CHANCE

Say you just initiate a chat with that girl that a friend took him to present in the middle of the party. She keeps the look intense, firm and direct as you talk? Good. This is a classic sign of interest. Furthermore, if she still tilt the body forward, even better! And if, in response, bringing her mouth to his ear, put it better! It appears that the girl is engaged by the conversation.
Mirrored movements, such as crossing legs crossed just like you their, or give a shot in the drink while you indicate that a smooth connection was established. Has more: to give a symmetrical smile showing teeth in top and bottom, to lift the shoulders from time to time and to show the palm of the hands outstretched, her body is talking to you is not only a nice subject, but very welcome.
Now, if she use the excuse to move the heat in the hair and - uh, this is getting interesting ... - leave the neck and the show itself, you can be sure that there is climate of sex in the air and she trusts you. Another sign of hope will be the contact during the conversation, it touches a part of your body than your arm.
Already red spots on her neck, the neck and those ears are on fire a huge banner that you move with the same girl. All thanks to the agitation promoted by adrenaline triggered within that delicate body. To make sure that the evening promises, just missing his crush on his touch the body to reach a snack ... when you know that neither party is so full of people.

YOU STILL HAVE A CHANCE:

The festival is good, sound is great, but you are in doubt is called the girl to dance? Bright! Your desconfiômetro, which should not be the worst, probably found a message that it is not yet in its. If you do not know where to get that feeling, just to look at her posture.
It may be only a matter of shyness to let the girl head down and tilted to one side, to the gesture that children exhibit when they feel ashamed. She keeps the chin supported in the hand? You bet: this is just being patient. Ah, is not the chin, but supported the cheek in his hand? Sign that you still need to know you better. In some, it is also why it is with your feet facing in, uncomfortable.
Then, you keep talking, but it hides his mouth behind the finger is in doubt because it says what really thinks. Then, focus the region of the chest of his crush, but get light: for the sound of her breasts, remember that an expanded chest hides a desire to impose, as a chest has shrunk a shy lady, who feels dominated by the situation.
But if she crossed legs pointing the knee in front of you, you just want to stop and be quiet before flaunt it. Stay cool, all is not lost. That light touch on your arm, even if it seems the way to chat with everyone, is a track you is not to play outside, no ...

YOU HAVE NO CHANCE

When leaving the party, unfortunately unattended and without a woeful paper with a phone number in your pocket, you are asking that handle the crush rays failed. Just make a reconstitution of the scenes to discover that, basically, the girl was not a no to you.
Take: To begin, it was a long time with the bag on the lap, no sign that he felt at ease there. Kept his arms crossed, something typical of those who want to protect, opening only exception to bicker at the table, impatient. When not smoking, with the hand on top and back, as you would throw a pie in his face, kept the fists closed in obvious sign of tension, or fear - will know? - The peak day of TPM.
It is my plate, would not even sure. She even tried, perhaps not have noticed that you rejected, but was warned that her body: that smile that leans to one side is never a true sign of joy. And when she was on foot, remember? Body tilted back, keeping distance, wary ... Sitting was even worse: he or she is a rocking nervously cross the foot of the leg, about to give it a shot, or was already sitting on the edge of the chair, with the tip of the feet on the floor, dying to escape the first opportunity. That night, huh?